Things to never say to chronically ill woman

• "Oh, I know someone who had that."

• "You should talk to __________, she had a problem down there"

• "How'd you get that?"

• "That's in your head"

• "You're to young to be sick"

• "You're to young to be in that much pain"

• "You shouldn't be in that much pain"

• "You need to change you diet"

• "If your attitude was different"

• "Maybe you should lose some weight"

• "You take to much medicine"

• "But, you don't look sick"

• "Are you feeling better yet?"

• "You should work out more"

• "You need something else to do"

• "Have you lost/gained weight?"

• "It's not that bad"

• "Everyone has bad days"

• "You need to get out more"

• "You still don't feel well?"

• "You can't have children?"

• "If you got pregnant, you'd be fine."

• "Suck it up."

• "I get bad cramps, and I'm fine."

• "If you preoccupied yourself, you wouldn't be in so much pain."

• "Be lucky you don't have cancer"

• "Were you abused?"

• "Having children isn't all it's cracked up to be."

• "You need to pray."

• "You just want attention."

• "I think I have that too."

• "If you didn't think about it so much."

• "Are you still sick?"

• "I thought that surgery helped?"

• "You just use that as an excuse."

• "That's no excuse."